Oct 292013


1. Can you tell when your lover is close to having an orgasm? How can you tell? What are the signs?

I absolutely can.  When we’re having sex it’s obvious as his movements quicken, breathing gets heavier, and his mouth opens.  During oral sex I can tell by the way he breathes, how his body quivers, and how much thicker he immediately feels in my mouth.

2. Ladies have you ever seen YOUR g-spot? Men have you actually seen the g-spot?

I have never seen it and neither has my husband.

3. Which sexual position do you find most stimulating?

a. missionary
b. woman on top, facing man
c. doggy style
d. other – tell us about it

B.  Nothing feels more intimate than being face to face and feeling him deep inside of me.

4. When you orgasm, are you:

a. silent
b. make a little noise
c. yell out!

I’m silent when I make myself climax, but make more noise when my husband brings me there.  I try to be quieter than not because I would hate to wake the kids (though it’s never happened), but I always make at least some noise.

5. A lover orgasms quickly, way before you are even close to having an orgasm. Do you stop the sex once he/she has had an orgasm or do you continue sexual play so you can orgasm too?

Sometimes he’ll take me there with oral sex, but often times I don’t get anything or need to handle it myself.

Bonus: On average, when you masturbate how long does it take to reach orgasm?
a. Less than 3 minutes
b. 3 – 5 minutes
c. 5 – 10 minutes
d. more than 10 minutes

both A and B depending on the day.  Sometimes it doesn’t take long at all, but other days it takes a little more time and effort.

TMI Tuesday blog
Oct 082013

Thank you to The Sin Doll for this week’s regular TMI Tuesday questions. We know that you are all sexy, all the time but…

tmi_tues pic for Oct 7

1. Create your perfect job. What do you do?

I would work from home.  Ideally, I would love to do something that sparks creativity.  I love making things and wish I could find a way to make some money doing something I love while still being able to stay at home with my children.

2. What person has changed you for the better?

My children.  Each one of them have helped me learn to be a better person in one way or another.  I’ve learned so much from them.

3. Cat person or dog person?

Cat, all the way!  I love big, fat, lazy, lovey cats!  Wish I had one!

4. Who is your favorite relative? Why?

Apart from the family I created myself, it would be my grandmother.  She’s one of the strongest women I know and a lot of my personality comes from her.

5. Mop the floor or iron clothes?

Mop the floor.  I only iron when it comes to making things, not doing laundry.

6. Which would you rather have, a swimming pool or a gardener? Why?

Swimming pool!  I love swimming and would go in a pool daily if I owned one.

You know I had to throw some sexy at ya...

Bonus: Are you better at giving oral sex or receiving oral sex?

Giving, all the way!  I love taking my time and really making it blow his mind!  It gives me a sense of pride knowing I’m able to bring him so much pleasure.

TMI Tuesday blog
Sep 172013



Fill in the blanks.

1. My passion project is raising my children.  

2. In the morning I hate to jump out of bed to do something

3. If our apartment (wish it was our own house) were bigger, I would like it.

4. Please don’t smoke close to me or my children, or YOUR children for that matter.  If that’s something you want to do, that’s fine, but it bothers many of us who don’t.

5. I have had strange things happen to me but dealing with psycho family is the worst.

6. Oh baby that feels good. Will you rub my shoulders ?  I would give anything to have a shoulder/back rub!!!

From https://filledandfooled.wordpress.com
What is one thing that you do to make yourself (and only yourself) happy?  This is something that you do that makes you feel uplifted and blissful when you get done and something you can repeat often.

While it would be very obvious to answer with masturbation (and very fitting), there are other things I do only for myself as well.  Taking a bath, reading a book, listening to music….perhaps I feel happy too easily! 

TMI Tuesday blog
Sep 032013


1. What type of vehicle do you use regularly? Truck, car, bike, etc.

We have a minivan ’cause we’re super cool like that.  Or because we have three kids, one or the other.

2. Do you use public transportation–bus, train, metro/subway, cab? How often?

I’ve only used public transportation a couple times in my life, it’s just not necessary for us.

3. Have you ever had sex in/on public transportation? Tell us about it?

I haven’t used public transportation since I lost my virginity.

4. I know most of you have had sex in a car or truck but how many times have you had sex in your present vehicle?

Sadly, we have not broken in our van (we got it back in February) because we’re almost never in it without at least our youngest daughter.

5. When was the last time you had sex in  car or truck type vehicle? Was it with a known person or a stranger?

Probably around March of 2011 was the last time we had actual sex in the vehicle.  I was quite pregnant with our daughter and we haven’t been able to since she was born.

6. Have you ever had sex on a bicycle or motorcycle?

No, but it’s something I hope to someday cross off the list! (motorcycle)

7. Stick shift or manual? Why?

Manual.  It’s just easier.

8. Ever had sex on the hood of a car? (Hood = The part of a car that covers the engine and that can be raised. The British word is bonnet.)

Once I did, while we were parked at a public beach at night.

Bonus: You are walking down the street. A very sexy and nude person (gender of your choice) pulls up next to you in their shiny new Mercedes Benz, they lower the window and say, “Do you want to ride in my Mercedes?” What do you do? Tell us what you want to do on that ride?

I would blush in extreme embarrassment and shyly decline.  I’m a happily married woman and I don’t think my husband would appreciate it! ;)

Bonus, bonus: What is the sexiest thing you have ever done in a vehicle?

Sitting in the middle seat, teasing my husband to the point he couldn’t stand it and then giving him a blowjob while we were going down the road.  It was a huge fantasy we both didn’t know we shared and it became a weekly thing for quite a while!  Sadly, we had to get a different vehicle and the van seats are just too far apart to make it work.

TMI Tuesday blog
Aug 272013



1. What sex act have you seen in porn videos/films and have never done but want to do? (Describe act or post a link).

I’m going to be the odd one here when I say we don’t really watch porn.  There are still some positions I’d like to try with my husband, but they’ve come from my own fantasies and aren’t based on something I’ve already seen.

From http://www.virtualsin.wordpress.com
2. A lot of porn is remakes of old ideas. It’s difficult to be creative in porn because it’s all basically about the same thing. Everyone is starved for ideas, and if some new idea is successful, it’s immediately swamped by knock-offs. Do you have an idea for something even a little bit new in porn?

A good story line?  I’m so lame when it comes to porn!  I don’t just want to watch people fucking, I want to truly believe that there’s an actual connection between them and it sounds like most of porn has horrible acting apart from the actual sex.

From https://hersecretlibrary.wordpress.com
3. Whilst ideally we’d all like to say our partner provides us with the best orgasms, what’s really making you see stars?
a) masturbation
b) sex toys
c) my partner(s)

Without hesitation the answer is C.  I provide myself with some awesome orgasms through masturbation (usually using toys), but nothing gives me a stronger orgasm than oral sex.

4. Have you ever ‘cheated’ on your partner, and did they know/find out? Would you want someone to tell you if your partner was ‘cheating’? Define what you consider ‘cheating’.

I think cheating can be defined a number of ways.  I would feel that my husband was cheating on me if he did something with someone and felt the need to hide it from me.  If you’re hiding something you know it’s wrong.  I’ve never cheated on anyone before as I don’t see the need to and I would absolutely want someone to tell me if my husband was.

Bonus: Give us 2-3 erotic paragraphs incorporating the following words in your story(ette): Magnificent, Nero, Licks, Hard, Nipples. (And no, you can’t use them all in one sentence).

It never takes long for you to turn me on.  Just the thought of you sends electricity to my nipples and warms my sweet spot.  The magnificent way you always know just how to please me; your gentle licks, teasing nibbles…these thoughts always ruin my concentration.  It’s so hard to focus on anything apart from you, Nero; my king, my everything…so I think tonight my dreams will be only of you.

TMI Tuesday blog



Aug 192013

The Men of TMI Tuesday



1. Advizor: http://advizortoall.blogspot.com
I once overheard in a bathroom, “There is nothing as over-rated as sex or under-rated as a good bowel movement.” Discuss.

- I think prior to having sex a lot of people made it sound like it was all fireworks and amazingly orgasmic.  Not many people talk about the issues you could have with it, so in the beginning before you’ve had a chance to experience it for yourself, it can sound a little over-rated.  Good bowel movements are good, but I don’t think they’re under-rated.  My husband constantly shares his pleasurable bathroom experiences with me!

2. the late phoenix: http://thelatephoenix.blogspot.com/
Friendship lasts longer than cumming. which of your online friends that you’ve never met would you like to meet in real life? which do you think you could become life-long REAL friends with? Actual friends, like going out to coffee and movies with, gossiping with, kissing on the forehead, hugging, loving.

- I’ve never had a ‘real’ friend as an adult, so it’s hard to imagine actually spending time with someone.  There are lots of fellow bloggers that I get along really well with, and I would hope we’d be friends in ‘real’ life.  Mr. Will, TJ, Reenie, Shadow, Beck….and others…I just love everyone! <3

3. John D Stories: http://www.johndstories.co.uk/
In a parallel universe, who out of your blog or Twitter followers would you most like to spend a steamy evening with? What would you do? Why them?

- My steamy evenings are spent with my husband.  Unless we’re at a spa in a sauna…then I’ll get steamy with all of you! ;)

4. Virtual Sin: http://virtualsin.wordpress.com/
(multi-part question)
a. What method of stimulation (intercourse, oral, manual, toy, whatever) gives you the strongest orgasm?
b. With what method of stimulation do you get the most orgasms?
c. If the answer to a is different from the answer to b, what’s wrong with your life?

- Strongest – Oral
- Most – Clitoral (with a toy)
- Nothing is wrong with my life, my husband isn’t always handy!

5. Jon Pressick: http://sex-in-words.blogspot.com
Would you rather have a life where you only had sex once a year for 2 minutes or where you have to have sex, every day for a minimum of 2 hours?

- Every day for 2 hours!  Think of the weight you’d lose!  I seriously couldn’t have sex that infrequently! 

Nero: https://hersecretlibrary.wordpress.com
Is there anyone on your partner’s side of the family you find hot? If you could hook up with them without anyone finding out (ever!) would you?

- There’s no one on his side of the family I’m attracted to, and even if there was I wouldn’t do anything with them.  I’m more than content with my man! 

TMI Tuesday blog
Aug 062013

Just Asking


1. What’s your dirtiest secret?

I may be dirty, but I have no secrets!  If you want to know something, feel free to ask me! :)

2. What’s the sweetest thing you have done for someone?

I have no idea how to answer this question!  I always try to be a good person, be sweet and loving when I can.  I guess the sweetest thing I did was throw away my fears about getting married again because it was so important to my man.  He was worth it, even if it scared the hell out of me.

3. What’s your favorite foreplay act to give? Receive?

Oral sex, without question!  I love to drive my man crazy with some good head!  I love it when we take our time and he’s kissing and touching my body…that’s probably my favorite to receive.

4. State five (5) facts about your body.

  1. My body has carried three babies full term and I was able to vaginally deliver them each without any pain medication.
  2. My breasts are lopsided, the left one is considerably larger than the right and it makes me really self conscious.
  3. I have a birthmark that looks sort of like a heart on my right elbow.
  4. I started wearing glasses when I was 4 years old and wear contacts now, my eyes seem to get worse every year.
  5. My body has been pierced 18 times.

5. Would you like to fondle the person next to you?

Oh yes!  And have the honor to…often! ;)

Bonus: Penis or vagina? Why?

Penis…all the way!  They are amazing!  I love how it feels as it grows larger and firmer against you.  There’s so much more to look at and enjoy when it comes to the penis!

TMI Tuesday blog
Jul 302013



1. Do you believe in marriage?

I do.  I feel differently about it than I did years ago, but I still think it’s something meaningful and important.

2. Have you ever proposed marriage or been proposed to marry? What happened?

Honestly, I’ve been married twice, but was only proposed to once.  My ex husband asked me, but my husband decided to take the easy way out.  We were sitting at my mom’s dining room table and he asked me, “If I asked you to marry me, would you say yes?”  I told him I would and he immediately called his mom and told her we were engaged.  It was cute how he acted, be I wish he had truly asked me.

3. What would be your dream way of proposing marriage?

If he had asked me at all, it would have been nice.  Maybe just he and I, at the beach at sunset like we always did together…

4. What would be your nightmarish way of proposing marriage?

Something extravagant and in front of a lot of people.  I don’t like being the center of attention and that would have really bothered me.

5. Mainstream society has engagement rings; in your opinion, what token should be given to signify engagement?

I actually really like the whole idea of having rings.  Maybe not engagement rings, but to wear rings to signify marriage.  It shows others that you’re taken and I love the whole concept of it.

6. What do you think would have happened to cause someone to have “Will you marry me?” on the back of their caravan?

I’d love to think it was a super romantic thing some man did for his lady, perhaps surprising her as she drove behind him for a special getaway.  But, that probably wasn’t the case.  Perhaps it was a cruel joke his best bud played on he and his girlfriend…that could be awkward!

Bonus: Tell us about someone you would have proposed to but never had the chance/opportunity.

I wouldn’t have proposed to anyone.  I actually like the tradition of the man asking the lady, but that’s just me! :)

TMI Tuesday blog
Jul 162013
TMI Tuesday - Choices

 1. Would you rather be smart or awesome? Why? – I would rather be smart.  I could spend the rest of my life coming up with awesome things I could do. 2. Would you rather french kiss a cat or pleasure a frog? – Pleasure a frog.  I have issues with drool/mouths, and there’s no [...]