Embrace Lover’s Remote from California Exotic Novelties
Pros:
- Made from silicone
- Designed for couples
- Both pieces vibrate
- Rechargeable
Cons:
- Remote isn’t waterproof
- Buzzy vibrations
- Expensive
- Stimulator functions poorly (will explain)
- Cheaply made
Overall:
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-Overview-
If you’ve read any of my reviews, you know I try to view a product for what it is, not just my experience with it. I know that just because something doesn’t work for me, doesn’t mean it’s a horrible toy and no one should ever give it a shot. Well, today that changes. Don’t buy this toy. Seriously, just don’t. It’s priced like luxury, but it’s really just a cheap toy that doesn’t work the way it should.
-Intro/Use-
The Embrace Lover’s Remote from Cal Exotics is a vibrator designed for couples. It features a stimulator which is designed to be inserted into the body, and a remote that controls the vibration settings.
Sets like these are typically used together, with one person being stimulated, and the other controlling the stimulation. People often use vibes like this in public, getting off on their secretive play while out in the open. If you’re looking for a product that’s suitable for public use, this isn’t the one to get. The Embrace Lover’s Remote is far less discreet, and for a good reason; the remote itself also vibrates.
The vibrating remote can be used in a variety of ways. It can be used on the person who has the stimulator inserted (for dual (vaginal/clitoral) pleasure), on the partner controlling the vibrations inside your body, and on any sensitive area on either of your bodies. Similarly, the stimulator can be used outside of the body in the same sense.
The stimulator has a nice little retrieval cord on the bottom that makes it easier to remove. Don’t let this give you false safety. There isn’t a proper base on this toy, so it shouldn’t be inserted anally. While you could try holding onto the cord the whole time, it’s really not worth the risk when you consider the complications should it slip too far inside your body.
The way this toy is waterproof makes no sense to me. The stimulator is waterproof, which it should be considering it’s designed to be used inside your body, but the remote is only splash proof. This really takes a lot away from the toy since you need to use caution with where and how you use the remote. If the stimulator is waterproof, why couldn’t the remote be as well?
-Material/Texture-
The Embrace Lover’s Remote is made from silicone and ABS plastic with silver plating. Both materials are non-porous, latex free, and phthalate free. They can be cleaned using soap and water (be careful to not submerge the remote) or your favorite sex toy cleaner, and can be sterilized using a 10% bleach solution. Where the plastic and silicone meet aren’t flush, so you’ll need to pay close attention when cleaning to get into the grooves.
The silicone is matte and glides easily across the skin. It does pick up some dust and lint, but is easy to manage by wiping down before use. Apart from the retrieval cord, both the stimulator and remote are firm. The silicone is simply a skin over the internal parts, which is good for those that enjoy pressure.
The cord itself is flexible which allows you to comfortably use it underneath clothing. Though it bends with ease, it’s not stretchy at all, making it much easier to remove.
There’s no intentional texture on this toy, but you can feel where the silicone and plastic connect, and the buttons on both pieces are raised. It’s really obvious when you’re touching it with your hands, but isn’t as much once inserted.
-Design/Size-
The Embrace Lover’s Remote is available in grey, pink, and purple, but the plastic areas are silver on each. They’re both pretty basic looking pieces, being similar in design to many toys before it.
The stimulator is bulb shaped, having a wide, rounded top and decreasing slightly in size toward the bottom. At the base is the retrieval cord which features a circular disc at the end. It has a fairly nice shape to it, but how well it works inside your body will depend on your specific anatomy.
The remote has a very ergonomic shape to it. It has a nice curve and bulges in all the right places. You can easily lay it over your vulva and allow it to provide broad coverage, or use the tip for more targeted stimulation of the clitoris, nipples, or other areas. The controls are in a convenient location, but aren’t easy to accidentally press.

The size of the Embrace Lover’s Remote is reasonable, but the end of the stimulator might be difficult for some to insert; not so much because of the size, but because it’s rounded. Using some water-based lubricant and relaxing should help if you’re having trouble. The full length of the stimulator (including cord) is 7 1/2″, but only about 3 1/2″ are designed to be inserted. The girth ranges from 4 1/2″ in circumference (at the widest area), down to 3″. Most users who are used to penetration should be able to use this product. The remote itself is 3 1/4″ long, and 1 1/2″ across the widest point.
-Function/Controls-
The Embrace Lover’s Remote is rechargeable and arrives with a partial charge. Prior to the first use, you should plug it in and allow the vibe to fully juice up. The first charge will take approximately 90 minutes, and will provide 90 minutes of play when used on the highest setting. The really neat thing about the USB charger they include, is that you can recharge both the stimulator and remote at the same time.
Behind both buttons on the remote, and near the button on the stimulator, lights flash to indicate the pieces are charging. When they’re fully charged, the lights will glow steady to show they’re ready for use.
There are a total of three buttons between the pieces; two on the remote, and one on the stimulator. To turn them both on, you first have to press and hold the button on the stimulator for a few seconds. The light will come on and start flashing, showing that it’s activated. The vibrations won’t start until
you turn on the remote. You press and hold down the power button (on the remote) and the vibrations will instantly be felt in both pieces. From there, you can press the functions button and both pieces will cycle through the settings together, or you can turn off the vibrations in the remote. To do this, you must hold down the functions button for a few seconds. The remote will no longer vibrate, but it still controls which setting the stimulator is on. If you only want to use the remote (which the paperwork states doubles as a panty vibe), you ignore the stimulator and simply turn on the remote.
Any time you’ve used both pieces, you must turn them both off. Holding down the power button on the remote will stop all vibrations, but the stimulator will still have a flashing light. Though it’s no longer vibrating, you still need to turn it off by holding down the power button on that piece as well. It’s a lot of information to learn, but if the product is in front of you, it’s much easier to understand.
There are a total of seven settings, and the stimulator and remote always match each other. The settings are:
- Steady Low
- Steady High
- Pulse
- Quick Pulse
- Escalation
- Roller Coaster
- Mix of Each
The vibrations are extremely buzzy. They’re lighter in the remote than the stimulator, but neither are very deep and certainly aren’t rumbly. They travel fairly well throughout both, and as a result they numb your hands and the area of your body they’re in contact with.
The sound level is reasonable; someone in the same room could probably hear it (which is why public play is out of the question) but no one would be able to hear through a closed door.
-Packaging-
The Embrace Lover’s Remote arrives in black cardboard box that’s surrounded by a thin sleeve. The sleeve has the product and company name on the front and the back has an image of the toy and covers the key points about it. It’s not discreet since it’s obvious what the package contains, but it’s shown in a tasteful way. When the sleeve is removed the box becomes even more discreet, but still has ‘embrace by California Exotic Novelties‘ on the top in silver lettering. Inside, the stimulator and remote are nestled inside a piece of foam. Behind that, you’ll find the charger and paperwork that comes with the toy. Unfortunately, the package is all you receive for storage as it doesn’t contain a pouch.

-Experience-
I love rechargeable toys. The vibrating side of my collection is mostly made up of rechargeable toys (the ones I’ve held onto), so I was pleased to see the Embrace Lover’s Remote was as well.
My first impression of the toy was the box it arrived in It seemed a little more classy than some of their packaging, but still didn’t seem fitting for a ‘luxury’ product; and at this price point you’d figure it was safe to consider this one. When I opened the package I immediately saw the truth; this product was a wolf in sheep’s clothing.
The vibrator looked and felt really cheap. It’s very lightweight, the plastic isn’t lined up well with the silicone, and I could actually see some type of glue (or other clear bonding material) around some of the plastic. If I had paid $109.99 for this product, I would have fainted at the sight of it!
I always, always give products a fair shot, and after taking photos and charging the toy, it was time to test. I went into the bathroom, turned on the stimulator, put my foot on the side of the tub, and inserted it.
Now, this is something you really have to take a moment to imagine. Here I am, all Captain style, with my foot on the tub, this weak, buzzy vibe inside my vagina, and the remote in my hand. I remove my foot from the side of the tub, place it on the floor, and the stimulator stops vibrating. I thought it was really odd, so I returned my foot to the tub to readjust and it started vibrating before I even had the chance to. I’m literally standing in my bathroom, doing a little jig, trying to see what the issue is. Foot up, vibrations work. Foot down, vibrations cease. Yes, I repeated this step several times and couldn’t help but laugh as I did. I removed the stimulator and tried turning it a little. Same results. Tried pushing it in further. Same results. No matter what I did, it acted the same way.
I took the stimulator out, cleaned it, and tried squeezing it with my hands, trying to see if maybe it was pressure that was causing the issue. No matter how I pressed on it, the vibrations continued. I have no idea what the issue was, but I tried testing this set on four different occasions, and had the same result every time. If I squatted or had my foot up the toy would work, if I stood up with both feet on the ground, they stopped.
I honestly have no idea what the issue was, but I could not get the darn thing to work for me. I tried until I was frustrated and uncomfortable before I gave up. This product was a major letdown. It’s so expensive, cheaply made, has light and buzzy vibrations, and simply wouldn’t work the way it was intended. This product isn’t worth the investment (and yes, I said investment), even if the stimulator works when it’s inserted.
If you’re interested in purchasing the Embrace Lover’s Remote, or something similar to it (or nothing like it) you can do so by clicking the banner below.

Embrace Lover’s Remote was provided to me free of charge in exchange for an unbiased review through the Cal Exotics Sexpert Program. This is in compliance with FTC guidelines.






There’s one button on the end of the battery cap that controls turning the toy on, cycling through the vibration patterns, and turning the toy off. The rubbery button is easy to press when you’re trying to change vibrations, but it’s not easy to accidentally change during use.

Photo courtesy of Cara Sutra


On a real note, the design is fairly simple, but serves a purpose. The Iroha website says:

The Sakura is rechargeable and comes with an interesting charging set up. It features a flat base that the toy magnetically connects to, and has a USB cord that plugs into it. It also comes with a wall adapter so you can charge your toy using a computer or a regular outlet. The black base has a clear plastic top and doubles as a storage container for your vibe.
When it first arrives, it’s important to allow your toy to fully charge before use. Make sure to line the control buttons up with the magnets on the base and plug it in. When properly connected to the charging base and plugged in, a small light will glow (from the charging base), letting you know that it’s charging. Once the charge is complete (after approximately 120 minutes), the light will turn off and your toy will be ready to use. On a full charge, the power can last up to 90 minutes, but that depends on which settings you’re using. The stronger settings require more power and will drain the battery faster. How long your vibe takes to recharge after that will depend on how low the battery was when placed on the charger.





In general, the surface is very firm because the silicone area is only on the outside of the vibe. Only the tip of the toy has some flexibility to it, but still is able to provide as much pressure as you need during use. While the majority of the toy is smooth, there are small areas of texture present. An obvious seam can be seen through the center of both the front and back of the toy and there’s some raised lettering as well. The seam can only be felt with your hands and shouldn’t cause an issue during use. The button is also raised from the rest of the toy which makes it easier to find since the whole toy is the same color.

The Leaf Life+ is rechargeable and comes with a USB charging cord. When it first arrives, it requires an initial charge of at least three hours prior to use. The port is located on the bottom of the toy and is very obvious. When you plug it in, a red light
will glow just above the port. This indicates that it’s connected and charging. When the charge is complete, the light will turn off and you’re ready to disconnect and use your vibe.
Each time you press the button to change functions, the light will flash four times to indicate the change, and then remain glowing steady. This light is awesome if you’re in a totally dark room and have trouble finding the button, though it is raised slightly from the toy. However, if you’re sharing a room with someone and are trying to be discreet, the light can be a little frustrating since it glows so bright.
The packaging the Leaf Life+ arrives in is really nice. It’s not discreet because the text gives away what the product is, but it’s very tastefully done. There’s only a little information on the front, it’s the back that shows you the key points and has an illustration of the product it contains. The cardboard packaging was made to last and would be suitable for storage. It opens from the side and has a flap that magnetically keeps it closed. When you open the box, you’re met with a folded sleeve that holds the user manual. Beneath that you’ll find the USB charger, and the storage pouch which is already holding your Life+ inside (which is also in a plastic bag).








The top of the box pulls up and off the same way the Revel Body box does, only the tips are set inside a cardboard base that holds them in place fairly well. It’s very attractive and well made, though larger than necessary for the product. Since they each contain strong magnets, it’s important that they’re stored apart, which makes the original packaging work best for storage. Within each attachment box is a little paper that gives you the basic rundown of cleaning and caring for the product. There isn’t much information on the outside of the boxes, but it’s not really necessary since your Revel Body instruction booklet will have provided the most information, and the attachments are useless without the unit.
Size: 1 7/8″ in length
Ever has an interesting tip because of the design. Rather than being flush on the top, it features four rings that gradually sink into the center of the piece. It creates a small impression that makes it most stimulating to use on areas that extend slightly from the body. The rings are all raised from the piece and offer some texture during use. The texture is reasonable and should only bother those who have extreme sensitivities to texture. One of the downsides to the rings is that you do need to pay a little more attention when you’re cleaning it. Using a soft bristled tooth brush will help get in between all the lines, though a cotton swab would also work well if you clean it promptly after use. The silicone has a little more give on this piece than the original because of the design, which prevents it from causing discomfort during use.
Size: 2″ in length
Fawn is the most textured attachment out of them all and features 26 little feelers that create a delightful sensation. This one stands out to me as the couples’ attachment because it works best for teasing. Since it doesn’t dip in the center like Ever does, it works well on any surface of the body. The silicone on this tip has a lot of give to it, and creates a light tickling sensation during use. This is the attachment for fun, not for business. Cleaning is a little trickier with this tip because you need to get in between all the little nubs to do a good job. A soft bristled toothbrush works well on textured items like this one.
Size: 2 1/4″ in length
Cona literally looks like the tip of Niko (the next tip I’m about to go over) was cut off and the center was hollowed out. It has the exact same shape apart from the end, but provides a totally different sensation. The base of it starts off wider and tapers near the tip, leaving an opening that’s 3/8″ in diameter. This tip is the least versatile in my opinion. The end works well to cup very small areas, but is too odd to work well on other areas of the body. The silicone is very flexible on this tip, so it’s soft and comfortable, but won’t work for just anyone. Since the inside is hollow, you also need to pay extra attention when cleaning. Cotton swaps work best to get inside the small area.
Size: 2 3/8″ in length
If you’re only planning on purchasing only one tip, Niko takes the cake! It’s the tip that extends the furthest from the unit and works well just about anywhere. It provides a more pin-point stimulation and reaches your pleasure zones the easiest. The silicone on this one doesn’t have any texture to it, and only has a slight give. You can squeeze it between your fingers and feel it, but it’s not noticeable from sight alone. If you need pressure, this is the best option for the way Revel Body works. It doesn’t require a lot of lube, and is super easy to clean thanks to the smooth surface.
Size: 2 1/2″ in length

Though the package for the Revel Body is suitable for storage, the travel kit is really a must have. Even though it’s designed for travel and works well for that purpose, it’s awesome for simply storing your unit at home as well.
One side of the travel bag is empty and ready for your Revel Body to be placed inside. The opposite side has a drawstring that contains some extra goodies that are perfect for on the go. Leave your charging base at home without worry, because the travel kit includes its own USB charger and wall adapter. The charger connects to the unit magnetically, but they aren’t strong and you need to set it up carefully to prevent accidental disconnection. The cord on the charger appears to be very heavy duty and seems like it was designed to hold up well over time.





The Revel Body is rechargeable and will require an initial charge before use. It comes with a really neat charging base which prevents it from rolling and potentially disconnecting from the unit. The base is USB rechargeable so you can plug it into your computer, or use the included adapter to plug it into a regular outlet. When it’s charging, you’ll see a light glowing from within the cavity (or funnel area) of the toy. The light will glow until it’s fully charged. The time it takes to charge depends on how low the battery is. The include booklet states:
Once the toy is on, you’ll be on the first setting and the three lights in the funnel will glow steady during use. Rather than various patterns, this product features 10 speeds. Each press of the plus button will bring you to a faster setting (and can be decreased at any point to lower the speed). Please note I’m not saying a higher or more powerful setting, I’m saying faster. The highest setting isn’t the most powerful, in fact, the higher settings actually feel more buzzy and less powerful than some of the lower ones. It’s the speeds toward the middle (third, fourth, and fifth) that feel the fastest to me and provide deeper vibrations. The motor within the massager isn’t like standard vibrators. It’s a totally new concept that’s pretty interesting. You can learn more about TrueSonic technology by visiting this website.
(Please note, I placed the massager upside down on the plastic tray for the photo, it will be placed in the box properly when it arrives.)